Encouraging Individuality in Twins/Multiples

1) Spend one on one time with each child.
 

Without a doubt, children of all ages and stages love to have their parents' exclusive attention. When children within a family are of different ages, it seems easier to meet that need. Opportunities are built into the different routines of each child's life stage: eldest children have the spotlight until a younger sibling is born, but as they spend more time in school and activities, the younger children take the floor.

However, twins and multiples are forced to share their parents (and grandparents!) time and attention for much of their lives. Parents have to craft opportunities for one-on-one time. It's time well spent, however, as an opportunity to get to know each multiple on an individual basis. (More tips on finding one-on-one time.)