What's Different About Parenting Twins?
2009-07-02 Author:Pamela Prindle Fierro Source:About.com
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Isn't there a saying that claims there is "safety" in numbers? I'd venture that there is actually more danger when it comes to multiples. As a group, a set of twins, triplets or more can generate a lot more chaos than singleton siblings. Working as a team, they're likely to be more daring, take more risks, and push the limits further. Whether they are climbing on each other to reach the highest cabinet, or cooperatively unraveling the living room carpet, multiples really keep parents on their toes.
The Good Stuff
Despite some challenges and drawbacks, having twins or multiples is a great joy. It's a privilige to be an observer of and participant in their unique and special relationship. There is a level of convenience and efficiency in parenting children simulaneously; some of the more unpleasant aspects (sleepless nights, teething, potty training, teenage troubles) only have to be endured once. There's a level of "celebrity" attached to having twins or mulitples; some parents relish the attention while others shy away. But mostly, there is great pleasure and enjoyment in parenting multiples, every proud moment is multiplied and every simple joy is magnified.
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